Is Mediation Right for My Divorce?

Is Mediation Right for My Divorce?
Mediation can be an affordable and effective alternative to litigating your divorce issues.  It is non-binding, meaning that the mediator cannot force a solution on the parties.  Instead, the mediator will help the parties to assess their legal positions and the potential outcomes if the parties go to trial.  Divorce is often an emotionally charged experience which can be a barrier to resolving the matter in a timely and affordable manner.  But, a good mediator can help find common ground between the parties and focus their attention on finding a solution.  When choosing a mediator, consider the following:

• Cost and Availability:  Its important to select a mediator who is available when needed and is within your price range;
• Experience:  You want to choose a mediator who specializes in family law matter and is familiar with the types of issues that are commonly encountered  in divorce cases;
• Reputation:  Ask for recommendations from family, friends, and your lawyer.  Ultimately, you want a mediator with a reputation for being fair and impartial.

Keep in mind that mediation will only work if both sides actually want to reach a resolution.  If one side seeks to "destroy" the other, then mediation may not be the right alternative.  To determine if mediation is appropriate in your circumstances, reach out to us by phone or email for a complimentary consultation.